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How to keep your kids safe online

How To Keep Your Kids Safe Online

Jason




Kids today use the internet, smartphones and tablets like past generations used the landline telephone or even a radio.  Exploration and curiosity are a key part of growing up, learning about the world.  But are parents, guardians, teachers and interested others, we all want this experience to be positive and encouraging.  But how can you keep your kids safe online?

Today kids start using mobile enables devices from a young age, usually to play games aimed at kids or to visit websites designed for their age group.  Usually this will be done with parental assistance and supervision but it doesn’t take long for them to outgrow the need for someone to type in addresses or find a particular app.  In no time at all, they will be brushing off assistance and with it, the supervision that most parents feel they need to have.

Dangers at different ages

When kids are just learning how to use the internet, they are naturally trusting.  If someone tells them they are a friend, they will accept this.  As they get older, they become a little more ‘streetwise’ and will be a little more cautious about people.  They are also wiser about their own age group so someone posing to be a kid can often trip themselves up with teens who realise they aren’t what they say.  Unfortunately, this isn’t always the case though.

As kids travel through their school life, the additional risk of online bullying and abuse can come up.  This very modern phenomenon can be hard for parents to deal with, as kids don’t always realise that the behaviour they are facing is wrong.  One way to show them the difference is to point out that if you wouldn’t say a certain thing to a person to their face, you shouldn’t say it online.

Being targeted for advertising can be a problem as kids get older and they can be targeted by unscrupulous advertising agents and marketing messages.  Some of these may be a misdirection aimed at getting access to the computer through viruses and spyware and kids aren’t suspicious enough to realise this.

Finally, identity thieves will sometimes target kids to get information or access due to their inherently trusting nature.  This can be as simple as asking for a password to give them a special game upgrade or voucher that will appeal to them.

Other dangers

Other dangers come from games consoles and from social media.  Many consoles such as the Xbox and PlayStation connect gamers together over the internet and this can lead to exposure to inappropriate people who wouldn’t get access to kids over the normal internet.  Checking who they are playing with online is very important.

A similar problem comes when they reach 13 and can embark onto social media sites such as Facebook.  It is important to set their accounts so that only their friends can see their updates and monitor who these friends are.  Talking to them about matters such as posting photos of themselves or giving out information about where they live or go to school is also important.

Solutions

As with many things with kids, start as you mean to go on.  From an early age, begin to talk a little about being safe online at the same time as you discuss things like being on the internet for too long.  This will mean they grow up with limits and restrictions being a natural thing but also being cautious when on the internet will be too.

Setting parental controls is important and many of the big internet providers incorporate this facility automatically when you set up with them.  They can also be added or amended at any stage, so as your kids get older, you can change them accordingly.  If you let them use a smartphone or tablet when out and accessing a public Wi-Fi that won’t have these controls, make sure you set them for the device instead.  You can set most devices to forget the Wi-Fi password to stop the kids picking it up and going online when you aren’t around.

As kids get a little older and start school, their knowledge will advance both through use and through what they learn from others.  At this stage, make sure there are controls in place that prevents them from downloading content or apps without your approval and set up a list of websites that your kids are allowed to visit.

Once kids start using social media, discuss with them things like their digital footprint and how whatever they put on the internet about themselves never goes away.  Again using the idea of you wouldn’t hand someone a picture of yourself in a certain way so don’t post it online can help them understand the implications of what they are doing.  Make sure you are a friend on theirs on these sites and can see what they are posting – make it a condition of using the sites to ensure they don’t just delete you later!

Kids will often be able to outsmart their parents once they are in their early teens and will know more about the internet than you will.  Keeping up to date with the latest tech, trends and problems will help you keep up to date with what your kids are doing.  Update your parental settings and be frank with your kids about the really bad stuff out there on the internet.  You don’t want to scare them off (at this age, you probably wouldn’t be able to anyway) but they are old enough to fully understand how important their online safety really is.

Helpful Links

If you are even slightly concerned about something your kids have encountered online, there is plenty of help available to give you peace of mind or take the matter further.

The Child Exploitation and Online Protection Centre (CEOP) is a part of the National Crime Agency and is there to deal with sexual abuse and exploitation of both children and young people, as well as helping them if they are tricked into inappropriate behaviour online.

The UK Council for Child Internet Safety (UKCCIS) is a group of over 200 organisation across industries working to keep kids safe online.

The Internet Watch Foundation is an internet hotline for anyone who have inadvertently discovered child sexual abuse content anywhere on the internet.

Childnet International is a non-profit organisation helping to make the internet a safe and fun place for kids.




Jason
Jason

Jason is the Founder of Term Dates. As a parent, it soon became apparent that finding the Term Dates and School Holidays for a particular school was not as easy as it should be. After six months collating all the necessary data, Term Dates was born.